Companion Animal Grief and Loss: Supporting Bereaved Owners

The death of a companion animal causes profound grief in many owners, and animals themselves show behavioral responses to the loss of bonded companions that suggest they too experience grief.

Key Facts

An estimated 85 percent of pet owners report significant grief after the death of a companion animal
Dogs and cats show behavioral changes after the loss of a bonded companion including searching and vocalization
Veterinary staff report that companion animal death is one of the most emotionally impactful aspects of their work
Anticipatory grief begins when a companion animal is diagnosed with a terminal condition
Children who experience companion animal death often go through their first encounter with mortality
Surviving animals may benefit from the presence of a familiar item carrying the scent of the deceased
Pet bereavement counseling is increasingly recognized as a legitimate therapeutic specialty

Welfare Considerations

Companion animal grief affects both the human owner and surviving animals in the household. Dogs may search repeatedly for a missing companion, refuse food, and show changes in sleeping patterns. Cats may become withdrawn or unusually clingy. These behavioral signs are consistent with a grief-like response, though interpreting animal emotion requires care. For humans, disenfranchised grief — grief not recognized as legitimate by society — can complicate recovery. Acknowledging the full emotional significance of companion animal loss, and supporting both human mourners and surviving animals, is an important dimension of companion animal welfare.

What You Can Do

Allow yourself to grieve without minimizing the significance of companion animal loss
Monitor surviving animals for behavioral changes indicating distress after losing a companion
Contact a pet bereavement helpline or counselor if grief is significantly affecting daily functioning
Give surviving animals extra routine, comfort, and social interaction during the adjustment period
Consider the timing of introducing a new animal carefully — both for your readiness and the surviving animals