Companion Animal Grief and Loss Support for Owners

The grief experienced by pet owners after the death of a companion animal is a genuine welfare issue for humans that also affects the welfare of surviving pets who may also grieve their companion.

Key Facts

Pet loss grief can be as intense as grief for human family members for many owners
Surviving pets show behavioral changes after companion loss including reduced activity and appetite
Disenfranchised grief — grief not socially recognized — worsens outcomes for bereaved owners
Anticipatory grief begins for many owners during terminal illness before their pet dies
Pet loss support hotlines and counselors are available through many veterinary schools

Welfare Considerations

Pet loss grief sits at the intersection of human and animal welfare. When an owner is not supported through pet loss, the resulting emotional and decision-making challenges can affect how they make end-of-life decisions for the dying animal — sometimes pursuing aggressive treatment beyond what is welfare-positive, or conversely, withdrawing care prematurely. Supporting owners through grief improves human welfare and can also improve welfare outcomes for terminal and surviving animals. Recognizing pet loss as genuine grief requiring support is a welfare-aligned intervention.

What You Can Do

Seek or offer genuine validation and support after companion animal loss
Contact a pet loss hotline or counselor if grief feels overwhelming
Be aware of behavioral changes in surviving pets that may indicate grief
Support veterinary practices that provide grief resources and aftercare guidance