Pet Bereavement and Animal Grief: Supporting the Bond

The loss of a companion animal causes genuine grief in human owners, and animals themselves show behavioural responses to the death of bonded companions. Both deserve recognition and support.

Key Facts

Studies show that companion animal loss triggers grief responses comparable to losing a close human relative
Dogs show behavioural changes after losing a bonded companion including reduced appetite and increased vocalisations
Cats search for missing companions and show reduced activity and food intake after loss
Many owners report their grief is minimised because it is 'only a pet' - disenfranchised grief
The Blue Cross and other organisations provide pet bereavement helplines staffed by trained counsellors
Horses show changes in vocalisation and movement patterns after losing stable companions
Some animals benefit from seeing the body of a deceased companion to understand the loss

Welfare Considerations

Pet bereavement is a welfare issue from two directions: the grief of surviving humans is real and often underserved, and the grief of surviving animals is real but often unrecognised. An animal companion that loses their bonded partner needs additional support - consistency of routine, extra positive interaction and, in some cases, gradual introduction to new companions. Allowing surviving animals access to the body of a deceased companion (particularly in horses and dogs) may reduce the period of searching behaviour that indicates ongoing distress.

What You Can Do

Contact the Blue Cross pet bereavement support line if you are struggling after losing a companion animal
Monitor surviving animals for signs of grief including reduced eating, vocalising and searching
Maintain routine for surviving animals during the bereavement period
Seek veterinary advice before rushing to introduce a replacement companion animal
Support recognition of pet bereavement as legitimate grief in workplace and social contexts